Why We Prefer Dating Older Men – Nigeria Lady Confess

A Nigeria lady popularly known as Miss k, at alimosho LGA baruwa iyano ipaja was having a chat with her friend at the bus park when a question pup up from a stranger. He asked her why do ladies in Nigeria prefer dating older men?. This was her reply


1. Psychological and biological Reasons:


Men can remain fertile longer than women, and thus an older man who has survived has accumulated more resources than a younger man and for the fact that the man has made it that far in life also is a clue that he has good genetics and robust health, making him a desirable mate.
2. Older men looks for seriously relationship:


Women who are tired of short-lived and immature relationships can find a more satisfying and more stable relationship with an older guy than a guy in his late 20s for example. Younger men are still at an age where they love to explore and try different things before settling on something more serious.
3. Older men are good in the kitchen.
4. Older men generally live a healthy lifestyle:


Older men love to drink wine and beer and yes some of them smoke as well, but they know their limitations. Older men also tend to have at least one or two sports that they really enjoy doing. They maintain an active lifestyle apart from the office.
5. Older men have less intrest on parties:


Older men tend to realize that the kind of party-heavy lifestyle many young men focus on is unsustainable and not good for one’s health. This goes hand-in-hand with their focus on living a healthy lifestyle. Instead, they tend to enjoy the company of their good friends, in social settings where everyone can be heard and interesting conversations can take place.
6. Older men are more experienced and cultured:


She said older men are more mature and understand that things don’t always happen the way they want them to and so they are more understanding and patient with their partners. She also went on saying men are like wine, the older the better.
7. Older men are more financially stable:


When you start a family, for example, it is important that the man is able to provide security. A self-sufficient woman will not easily settle for anyone who earns less.


An older man has enough assets and money in the bank to support a family. This is why women go for financially-stable men instead of those who are still generally starting with their career. women date in order to find a man whom she can live with all her life and start a family with. Women don’t date just for the sake of dating; they are also thinking of the future.

8. Older men may be better in terms of pleasing and handling women:

In her opinion, older men have had their fair share of both short-lived and more stable relationships, and this gives them a bit of an advantage when it comes to handling relationships. Their previous experiences have helped them learn what women generally want and what makes women happy. Not only do they know more in bed, but they also understand women a little bit better. They are also more sensitive to their partner’s needs. Older men tend to be more romantic as well. They have a good sense of humor that does not involve shaming their friends or other destructive behavior.