10 things you should never rush in life no matter the pressure

There are some things we rush into which is by one way or the other is affecting us now. This life is too short, why rush? You don't need to rush anything or force them, the right time will definitely come. Your life is not meant to be a competition to others or their life to be a competition to yours. Don't be greedy, let what you have satisfy you in every way. Don't be bothered with the life of others to the extent of rushing things and at the end of the day, it can definitely cause you more harm than good.





1. Don't rush to have money.







Nowadays, the pressure to have by most of these youth is too much. You'll see boys that are not even up to 20 years of age already driving a car, spending millions of naira and it is not that they're employed or something. Rushing to have money is very bad, future regrets and consequence awaits you. Don't look at your friends life to live your life, don't rush for things that are yet not to be yours. Let your hustle be legit.

2. Don't rush to marriage.




Marriage is a lifetime prison, once you're into it, for you to get out will be definitely hard. Don't rush into marriage because of any pressure from anybody. Wait for your time, the right person will come at the right time and also keep praying, you will see your own soulmate by God's grace. Also, if you're the type that come home late at night, you'll have to change your way of life once you get married. Getting married, is getting committed to your spouse. You won't live by your rules anymore, you'll live by the rules you both made. Are you ready to be committed? If no, don't rush into marriage.

3. Don't rush to have a kid.






This is another form of committed. Don't just have kid because you see kids adorable. The essence of a good mother is raising her kid to become a better person in the society and if she fails to do that, the case will be reserve. There is no how you will have a kid that you're job won't be affected, your lifestyle changed also and latter or soon changes try to take place. Are you ready for everything? Don't rush to have a kid.

4. Choosing Friends.






Friends play a very important role in one's life. Once you have the wrong friends, your life will definitely be unbalanced. Don't rush to have friends, take your time and know the kind of people they are before you select them as you friends. As they as, "show me your friend, and I'll tell you who you're". Don't roll with bad guys, if you don't want to have future regrets.

5. Ending your long time relationship.







There will surely be ups and downs in every relationship, ending the relationship is not an option. Don't end your relationship in a rush because your expectations were been cut short. Our actions sometimes make us to face unnecessary loss, don't just rush to end your long time relationship and later you'll have to beg that same person. Think twice before you act.

6. Rushing into investment.






There are a lot of investment in town now that people are into and most of them don't really know much about it. Don't rush into investment all because your friend is into it. Your friend might escape the loss, and you can be a victim at the day of the day. If at all you want to invest in any Business, just chill, take your time and know how it works.

7. Rushing to pick career opportunities.






Because my friend went for law, I also did. You don't need that at all, take your time and don't let anyone rush you. Remember, it is a lifetime decision that will help you in the future. Don't rush at all.

8. Impress people.

You don't need go rush go impress people, later or sooner, your success will speak itself. Don't rush to impress people because of your self interest, you don't know who is happy and sad at your success. Especially on social media, keep low and don't rush to impress people.

9. Sign a legal document.






Don't be convince by mere words alone, try to confirm more by going through the document yourself before signing it. Don't allow anyone to fool you, read and understand the document before signing it.

10. Don't rush to get to the top.